Even with the best intentions, it’s easy to misalign your message’s intent and its impact. Timing, tone, and setting are critical factors that can make or break a conversation. If your discussion partner feels dismissed or drawn into a debate, the conversation can quickly derail.
Be mindful of the “places, spaces, and faces” involved in the discussion. Is this the right time and place for this conversation? Is the person you’re talking to in the right frame of mind? Thoughtful consideration of these factors can significantly impact the outcome of the discussion.
Above all, check in with yourself before engaging. Are you in the right headspace? If not, it’s okay to postpone the conversation until you are ready. Respecting both your own and the other person’s emotional state is key to having a meaningful dialogue.